Elephant’s Leg


As with the previous year, 2015 was largely a positive one, especially on the personal front, but I also lost two people I was very fond of.  But one positive side of death is when cherished people are remembered warmly, and even though they may be of scant use to the deceased, tributes are a comfort to those they left behind, and my two friends who passed away were very dear souls. But I will start with the good news…


Fai and I in Krabi, post-engagement

Fai and I in Krabi, post-engagement

The biggest and best news came in October, when my girlfriend Fai agreed to marry me after I proposed to her  in the sea off Koh Phi Phi. We’d been together for about two and a half years, and in that time I have learned she shared most of my ideas about what we want in life, and on top of that she is very easy to get on with. Being in a relationship in which there is almost never a fight or major disagreement is a state of affairs worth holding on to, and so I am very glad she said ‘yes’.

Our engagement came roughly a month after we started living together . That was another big step, and not just for the act of cohabiting itself, but also because it meant leaving the place in which I had lived for the longest consecutive time since childhood – the Elephant Tower, after which this blog is named. Nevertheless, the move has been good, as we now live in a bigger place than my previous one, and Fai is an excellent flatmate.

Work continued to go well, now a year and a half into my tenure as foreign news editor. However it was a bad year financially for the wider company, suggesting Thailand’s position as one of the few countries to still consume print media to a profitable degree is under threat. Certainly the sight of 80% of train passengers glued to their smartphones is not an encouraging sight.


My year in boxing was a rich and varied one, highlighted by competing at the annual Operation Smile Fight Night. I have been trying to get a spot on the bill for years and it finally came to fruition in October, as I faced off against Tony Wrigley. You can watch the full fight here:

The Op Smile Fight Night is always a spectacular affair, with hundreds of people turning out in style for a very glamorous evening’s entertainment and raising a heap of cash for a very worthy charity. Operation Smile has had a long association with the Bangkok boxing scene, and everybody who’s been involved with it in some form or other has fallen in love with the cause. A lot of charities are very corporate, but Op Smile is one where the results of fundraising are entirely tangible, and lives literally are changed in minutes. The money raised pays for operations for poor children affected with cleft lips and palates. The surgery is quick and the results permanent. I hope to join one of the Op Smile missions this year to see for myself the good work being done.

Hamze after winning in January

Hamze after winning in January

I also added to my experiences outside the ropes with several firsts. In January, and then again in May, I worked in the corner of a professional boxer for the first time. I seconded Mohamadreza Hamze, helping dispense some English-language instructions alongside his Iranian compatriots. This combination worked because they spoke his native language, while Hamze valued my knowledge of the sport. He – I like to say “we”! – won both times, first a knockout against Kwanpichit Twinsgym and then a unanimous decision over Komsak Niusuk, the latter time on TV. They were both very rewarding experiences, albeit very nerve-wracking ones given that the stakes are that much higher at pro level.

I later tried my hand at judging, as I was one of the three ringside arbiters at the second edition of King of the Pride, Lion’s Head Boxing‘s white collar boxing series. It was a privilege to sit ringside and have one of the final says in the outcomes, and again a bit stressful to be one of the three guys to hold the boxers’ fates in our hands. Several of the fights were very close but I believe we found the right winners, as none of the verdicts were met with disapproval from either the crowd or the fighters themselves.

View from ringside at Amnat v Zou

View from ringside at Amnat v Zou

While I’ve written about boxing since 2000, most notably for British magazine Boxing News, I’d never covered a true superfight before. In March, I returned to Macau to report on Amnat Ruenroeng versus Zou Shiming for both BN and the Bangkok Post. Those names might not be A-listers in the west, but believe me they are Asian superstars – especially Zou, a two-time Olympic gold medallist and flagship boxer of promoter Bob Arum’s drive to crack the potentially massive Chinese market. The sheer size of China’s population alone meant this might have been the most-watched boxing match of all time, with an estimated billion viewers tuning in. And I was reporting from ringside at The Venetian, enjoying the pomp and prestige of an HBO-televised casino show. It was just as grand as anything you’d see in Las Vegas, and it was a pleasure to be a part of it. Unfortunately for Chinese fans, the Thai champion retained his IBF flyweight belt, putting a large dent in Macau’s plans to supplant Vegas as a new boxing mecca.


One of the friends I lost in 2015 was also a big part of my boxing life. Massimo Bettarelli had been a regular training partner of mine, a friend outside the gym, and a competitor at the aforementioned King of the Pride 2, where I was a judge. His fight with Richard Malpeli (see below) was a dramatic brawl. Massimo loved the experience and buzzed off boxing training. He was preparing for another match, in December, when he was shockingly taken from us by a heart attack at the age of just 37. That is a terribly young age to die under any circumstances, and even more so of a heart attack. Add also the fact he was a competition-fit athlete, and you can see why Massimo’s death was such a blow to all his friends and the Bangkok boxing community.

More important than his place in boxing was the place Massimo held in everyone’s hearts. This is not just posthumous schmaltz – he really was liked by everyone who met him. He was affable, funny, gregarious and talented; he was a filmmaker as well as a boxer, and was working on a movie project when he died. His death sent shockwaves far and wide, but it truly was an honour to know him.

Bangkok's best cabbie

Bangkok’s best cabbie

While Massimo was pretty well known, the death of an “ordinary” man saddened me deeply, but again it was someone who made a hugely positive impact on my life.

Rungsan Chintanawong was not a sportsman, nor a filmmaker. He was not an expat, nor a traveller. He was neither rich, nor famous. In a city of 10 million people, he was just another everyday guy scraping a living, unnoticed by almost everybody. I was one of the few who did notice him, and who had the pleasure of becoming his friend.

Rungsan was a taxi driver, one of the 60,000 in Bangkok. I’ve met hundreds of taxi drivers here, but none of them made an impression on me like he did. Perhaps it was fate, but Rungsan was actually the very first taxi driver I met when I moved here, running me from the airport to my first accommodation. We hit it off immediately, and soon became friends. He actually died in 2014, but I didn’t learn about it until last year. I’m not ashamed to say I shed a tear upon learning of his death.

No, Rungsan was not a well-known man, but he unwittingly left a legacy with me and my relatives and friend who he met. I’m grateful that the Bangkok Post allowed me to write an obituary of sorts for this ordinary, yet remarkable, man. As archived Post content is for subscribers only, I have provided a screengrab of the page rather than a link to the article (click the image for a bigger view).



While I ventured overseas three times, including to one new country, and to several domestic destination, again including a new one, the highlight of my year in travel was actually going home in April – because accompanying me was Fai, who was not only seeing my homeland for the first time, but actually making her first ever trip abroad.

Many people travel to nearby countries first and then cast their nets wider as they gain more experience, but Fai’s maiden voyage outside Thailand was halfway across the world to a very different culture and climate – and she loved it.

A touch of the white stuff on the Cairngorms

A touch of the white stuff on the Cairngorms

My main worry was how she would fare with Britain’s notoriously inclement weather, but we were very lucky in that in only rained once during our entire two-week trip. And as for the cold, that actually worked to our advantage, as it snowed when we drove over the tops of the Cairngorms in Scotland. It was April, so very late in the year for snow, even in Scotland, so what a stroke of luck for Fai to experience that. We stopped the car so she could get out and experience what a lot of Thais can only dream about. The fact it was cold was a mere afterthought for her.

We did the usual circuit of visiting family in England, Wales and Scotland, plus took a day trip to London, so Fai got to experience a great cross-section of the UK. We did most of it by car, too, so she saw a lot more than if we’d used trains or planes.

My other overseas trips consisted of one return trip, and one new destination. The new one was a three-night visit with Fai in Ho Chi Minh City for New Year; the first time I’d been to Vietnam. The first thing that struck me was what strikes most people they arrive there – the motorbikes! The constant stream of motion, seemingly chaotic but somehow effective, makes Bangkok’s traffic seem calm. And if you’ve ever seen it for yourself, just imagine how much more intense it is when people are scrambling to get downtown for the new year fireworks, and then the scrum to leave afterwards.

Given the short-hop nature of the trip, we stuck to the usual tourist sights – a walking tour of the city taking in the Reunification Palace, War Remnants Museum, a water puppets show and Ben Thanh Market, followed by day trips; one a tour of four river islands in the Mekong delta, and another to visit the Cu Chi Tunnels, where Viet Cong sympathisers in the south lived underground in unimaginably tight conditions.

Vietnamese water puppets in Ho Chi Minh City

Vietnamese water puppets in Ho Chi Minh City

The highlights were the water puppets, the Mekong trip (to see some of rural Vietnam), the tunnels, and of course the food. The war museum was grimly compelling, albeit a little one-sided in its presentation. However, it is now accepted that the United States’ role in the war was dubious to say the least so it was interesting to see the conflict presented through a different lens to that which I’m used to. On the other hand, the tour guides were southerners and therefore largely pro-US, and were quite free in their criticisms of Hanoi. They both assured me they wouldn’t – or couldn’t – be similarly forthright in front of fellow Vietnamese, as there is a fear of spies. One of our guides was almost spitting as he denounced the Reunification Palace and implored his customers not to go. Too late for us, but it was a reminder of how there are two sides to any war, and thus two ways a war is remembered. To Hanoi, the north, and communist sympathisers, the palace is a celebration of the “liberation” of Saigon; to southerners and more democratic-minded types, it is a symbol of defeat.

My return to Macau was for the aforementioned work purposes, and was only for a couple of nights. I didn’t get a chance to see anything I missed first time around (in November 2014) but it is a very pleasant city which I’d happily visit again. Perhaps I will combine it with Hong Kong, to where a former colleague recently moved.

Domestically, I went to a couple of new spots with Fai. First was a visit to Yasothon, her childhood home in the northeast, to visit her grandma and other family members. The local scenes were charming and bucolic, and her relatives cooked up a marvellous barbecued feast.

At the same time, we spent a night in Ubon Ratchathani, a bigger city with an airport a couple of hours’ drive from Yasothon, where we took in the annual Wax Festival. It was one of the most spectacular cultural sights I have seen in Thailand, with sculptures ranging in size from human body shapes to so big that they were transported on lorries. All were intricately carved and some even had moving parts!

Koh Larn

Koh Larn

For New Year 2015, we went to Koh Larn, an island not far off Pattaya. The islands itself looked delightful, with numerous beaches and vivid blue seas, but it was very busy given it was a holiday period. It was also interesting how the beaches seemed to be “segregated” – one was full of Chinese tourists, another seemed to have mostly Russians, another was popular with Thais, and so on.

In October was the trip to Krabi and the successful proposition to Fai. While it was not expressly the destination I had in mind for popping the question, it was the time I intended to do it, as we had planned that trip in advance anyway. Ultimately, there was a certain poetry to the location, as I visited Krabi on my very first trip to Thailand back in 2004, and was utterly enchanted by the region. Ao Nang, the province’s mainland beach hub, is spreading at a rapid rate and dwarfs the one I found 11+ years ago, but its scenery remains just as striking as ever.

Finally, a long-awaited visit by an old friend from home was a great reminder of how enchanting this country is to the first-timer. Nick Ellis took advantage of a recent breakup to book some R&R here. He arrived shortly before my Op Smile boxing match and helped corner me in that. Then, it was full-on sightseeing mode – first, the obvious sites in Bangkok such as Wat Pho, the Grand Palace, muay Thai at Ratchadamnoen, and so on, and then we hit the beach with a few days in Koh Chang. A longer account of Nick’s time here was posted earlier on this blog.



Continuing my “Six of the best” series, I present the nicest or most interesting places I have travelled to outside of my home city of Bangkok.

Khao Sok sunset

Khao Sok sunset


Shortly after my move to Thailand, and with the good fortune to have a few weeks’ grace period between arriving in the country and starting work, I headed south for a combination beach and jungle trip. The beach leg was Phuket, which was exactly as I expected (beautiful but over-touristy), but before then I spent a couple of nights in Khao Sok in Surat Thani province. Unfortunately, a planned-for excursion into the jungle was called off, as heavy rainfall in preceding days had caused a landslide risk, and all organised tours had been cancelled. Even so, a brief stay in Amphoe Phanom, the hub village from which the national park is accessed, was delightful. The clean air and utterly laid back ambience is addictive, and the lush scenery some of the most dramatic in Thailand, from sweeping vistas of dark green to towering limestone cliffs. Even with tours cancelled, I could still go on more casual walks in the national park and had fun tubing down the Sok River. I’ve been promising myself a return ever since so that I can delve into the full Khao Sok experience of hiking, kayaking and more. Continue reading


With late April marking the anniversary of my move to Thailand, and with this year marking my sixth anniversary, I have decided to compile a series of “Six of the Best” features encompassing my hobbies and interests, which I have enjoyed during my time here. I will start with films made in, or set in, Thailand. The list is in chronological order of the year of production.




The first Thai film I saw after moving here remains one of my favourites. I watched Muay Thai Chaiya (simply Chaiya/ไชยา in Thai) almost as a token – “I’m in Thailand so I should watch a Thai film” – but I had a similar experience to when I watched Fight Club for the first time. Expecting a simple beat-’em-up, I was given so much more. Chaiya is, on the surface, a martial arts movie, but its narrative charts the coming of age and moral corruption of three pugilistic brothers as they move from the idyllic southern district of the film’s title to ’70s Bangkok to chase big bucks in the ring.

The three brothers’ fates take differing turns; one’s boxing career is cut short through injury, another pursues legitimate championship aspirations, and the third is drawn into Bangkok’s lucrative but increasingly dangerous underground fighting circuit. Organised crime influences all three, and their competing egos and influences make for a blood-soaked morality play of love triangles, sibling rivalries and childhood bonds. Chaiya culminates in an absurdly violent climax that some of Japan’s more notorious splatterhouse directors would be proud of, yet it is testament to director Kongkiat Khomsiri’s work that it somehow doesn’t come across as unrealistic. (Kongkiat would later direct another of my favourites, Slice – see next entry).

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An acceptable way to wear fur

An acceptable way to wear fur

The amazing response to my last post was quite an eye-opener. Initially, my blog was just a way to share my general musings with friends and family back home after I moved to Thailand. I wasn’t bothered about page views, although I’d had some good critical feedback on some past pieces. Even so, the most views my site had had in a day previously was a little over 200. But my “10 ways expats can avoid being mistaken for tourists” post has now picked up more than 3,300 views!

Since I’d only posted it on my own Facebook page and sent an email to a few people I already knew, I was very pleasantly surprised by this. It was my own experience of something going “viral”, and while 3,300+ views is a pretty modest stat in modern internet terms, it was achieved through the branch of “shares” on Facebook, Twitter and the link being posted on various forums. While technology has changed a lot in recent years, the adage remains that the best kind of advertising is a recommendation, so for my work to be publicised by people I don’t know whatsoever is a nice seal of approval.

As I hadn’t had particularly big numbers before, I hadn’t looked much at the referrers, search engine terms, and so on, but when I got the huge spike in views, I had a look at the WordPress stats page to see how people were finding their way to the site. I had a few surprises and laughs at some of the search engine terms that had directed people here, but one word in particular stood out because it cropped up over and over again.

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Rungsan and Jamie

“Hey, where you go?” “How much you pay?” “Meter not work.” Phrases that are all-too familiar for anybody who has been to  Bangkok, beginning as soon as you leave the arrivals area of the airport and following you all along downtown,  around the visitor attractions and surrounding your hotel.  Yes, it’s the hawking call of the notorious Bangkok taxi driver.

There are an estimated 60,000 of them in the city, and to be fair, the majority of them are reasonable enough. It’s just the majority of them do not congregate at the airport, the tourist traps, the nightspots, the malls and the big hotels. It is the unscrupulous few who dominate these places, who can spot a freshly arrived holidaymaker at a hundred paces, who can speak enough English to negotiate a con, and who foster the negative image many visitors take home of the corrupt cabbie.

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Ko Sichang offers Thai countryside atmosphere and attitudes by the sea

Thailand’s image needs all the help it can get right now. Last month’s dramatic footage of bomb sites and gun fights across Bangkok played out internationally and many countries have yet to lift their travel warnings to the erstwhile Land of Smiles.

For sure, confidence has been rocked, and even beyond the photos of war on the streets, the reputation of Thai people as gentle, benevolent Buddhists has been tarnished by displays of downright ugly behaviour during such fractious times.

Whether the protesters promising – and almost succeeding – to turn Bangkok into a “sea of fire”, or their opponents cheering and swearing as the death toll neared a hundred, there was precious little positive humanity on display.

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Pattaya’s skyscrapers loom in the background, but it’s easy to forget the city while lounging in Bang Saray’s clear waters

Talk to any old-timer expat here in Thailand and chances are that, before long, they’ll regale you with tales of when places such as Pattaya and Phuket were quiet fishing villages, and then lament that if only they’d bought land or property back then, they’d be stinking rich now.

Which raises the question of where tomorrow’s Pattaya or Phuket might be, or whether there even remains such potential in a country which is vastly more ensconsced on the tourist map than it was in the 1970s or 80s. Surely anywhere of commercial opportunity will already be long-discovered?

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Journalism 101: Never let the facts get in the way of a good story

As I work in the press, I’m always quick to defend journalists, especially against the stereotype that they “make things up”.

It is true, though, that facts can be shaped to fit an agenda, and also that whenever there are two or more sides to a story, a journalist can take whichever side best fits his remit. But they can’t simply make things up.

For a start, it’s against the law. If a newspaper prints a story about a person or event, and cannot prove that it is true if required to do so, then it will face penalties.

Take, for example, the 2004 case of the Daily Mirror‘s publication of photos which apparently showed British soldiers abusing an Iraqi captive. Desperate for a sensational scoop, The Mirror didn’t check the authenticity of the pictures, which were later proven to be fake. The result – editor Piers Morgan was fired.

So, a publication really can’t “make things up” without risking personal, political or financial repercussions. However, that’s not to say it never happens. While I may be quick to defend the press against this stereotype, at the same time I am quick to criticise journalists who do contribute to it.

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View from Khao Takiab

Hua Hin is the best beach spot within easy reach of Bangkok – by a long way, in my opinion.

Pattaya remains the busiest, but its popularity is more due to it being Thailand’s sex central – and unabashed position as such – rather than its unremarkable beach, dirty sea and culture-less city centre.

Cha-Am and Bang Saen have a nice atmosphere to them, but their beaches are gritty, with parasols spoiling most of the views (Thais like to be beside the seaside as much as Europeans, but hate the prospect of the sunshine darkening their skin).

Ko Samet and Ko Chang are both wonderful, but at around 4-5 hours’ drive from Bangkok, plus a ferry ride, they’re just a tad too far for a short hop.

Hua Hin, then, at 2-3 hours’ drive from Bangkok, is not only viable but also offers a lot that the aforementioned seaside spots don’t. Continue reading

Ko Chang

Ko Chang

The first item on the agenda is to fill in the gaps between September 2008 and September 2009, before I will start writing about more timely stuff, as and when it happens. I will be concise, because 12 months is a long time to chronicle, and will perhaps return to certain points in more detail at a later date.


Everyone who knows me will know how much I love to travel. The prospect of living and working abroad always excited me, and now I am doing it. I expected that living in Thailand would enable me to jet off to nearby Asian countries frequently, not to mention that Thailand itself is chock-full of attractive destinations.

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